I hate confrontations and those kind of iron-things-out talks. but it looks like I have to initiate one soon.

her 比大姨妈还要准的 phonecalls momentarily put a damper to my saturday night out. and its always the same few sentences. yesterday night I let her rambled while I was frowning into the phone, figuring that its better to let her say her own piece than trying to reason out with her at that moment.

I know my late nights out have became a friday weekly routine. but I am still doing my work, rushing out my reports and dutifully attending my meetings. Because I want to truly enjoy those nights out I make sure that what needs to be done gets done.

rather than waiting for the time to talk about it (which will probably be on my next late night out) I will find a chance to talk to her about this... I don't like to leave problems hanging in mid-air, unsolved or avoided. and I really don't wish to let her obstinate, backward thinking affect our relationship.

just hope to talk without having it escalate into a quarrel. I have to keep my temper in check, no matter how unreasonable I think she is!

and you've been putting up with this all this while, without any complains. thanks baby.