our 3rd

Eugene just smsed me to call him and I did. He had to down beer cos of 'superior pressure'. haha, was feeling seh alrdy and can sense it in the phone. He's talking a bit slower and slurring his speech... Lucky thing is its in his own camp and he doesn't have to drive...

This week's a busy one for him and so happens today is our 3rd month together. Well, if u wanna be more exact 2 mths cos for 1 mth I was away in France. hehe. Managed to squeeze some time out last nite so we can meet b4 the weekend. He might be activated so he dont want to take chances. Well, both of us are not those who are very particular about dates and anniversaries. Its just sth that mark when the journey started for us. Not a MUST-celebrate thingy.

We talked abt this topic b4 - sometimes its tiresome to celebrate every 'significant' date in the relationship. 99 days, 999 days etc etc. Some girls like to fuss over their bf celebrating this day and that day and throw tantrums when their bf forgot... Eug told me his army frens sometimes scared their gf asking them do you rem what day is XXX? haha, cos the wrong ans and THAT'S IT!

Isn't it more meaningful to treasure what you have with each other now and look fwd to what you have in the future... Rather than being angry with your bf abt some date.

So... 3 mths down the road. I can only say... I'm glad (: Glad that after one soured relationship and juggling a year in the university... I've learnt to manage my time better. manage my feelings better. There are times where emotions can overwhelm you and make you do or say things that you can never retract. I know now, with the experience gathered, I can be more matured this time. But, I still let myself 'go wrong' once... hee dear, sorry about that... gave u a scare le.

And I'm also glad... that Eugene is so understanding and matured. I must say, for someone in a 1st relationship, he is doing it very well. So dear, thks for everything so far... (: muacks. love you.