Would strongly recommend you all this website refered to me by Jer:

http://www.personalitypage.com/portraits.html

to check out ur personality type. There's no test here, just the profiles. So you would need to know your personality type. And after going through my own and Jer's... its quite accurate! I am a ESFP - The Caregiver

I desire security & stability
yeah, I really do. Uncertainty sometimes intimidate me. I guess because I like to be sure of the things & people around me. It also said that I like routines and things scheduled. But actually no, I welcome surprises and 'ad-hoc' plans as I think life will be too boring if everything is so predictable...

I need affirmation
In a way... I think this is true too. I think it stems from the fact that I lack confidence. So I need some form of reinforcement once in a while for me to know like 'hey its not as bad as you think' or things like that. I think relationships wise I need affirmation too... Not that I don't get any... what I mean is although I don't do silly stuff to get attention (like throwing tantrums & whatever crazy stuff some girls do) but yeah, I do like it once in a while. haha! girls and girlfriends like to feel remembered & appreciated!

The S-Sensing and F-Feeling dimension may cloud my ability to see the big picture
I hate to admit this, but I can see some truth to it. 'Cos I am indeed quite guided by my emotions sometimes that I may just forget the whole situation. so yeah, potential pitfall... haha.

well, hope you guys find it useful. I think it gives very good pointers to raise your 'self-awareness' and stuff for personal growth!