the first time since eons mths that jer & I stepped into town tog. besides, he was previously busy with projects, then exams. for a long time we pretty much just had dinner, watched some movies at his place, and roamed nearby. so its like a first quality day tog and it was great! :D

there is this slim chance (due to a few factors) of a business opportunity that got jer & me daydreaming for a bit. if it indeed does work out it'll be like a dream come true. but still. its too early to tell. need to keep our feet grounded & iron some stuff out. but gosh! if it really works... its going to be something totally new altogether.

it'll be something we wanna do tog. and seeing how my client quarrels with her husband (who is outstationed in vietnam permanently) every other week. I told jer that I can't stand long distance relationships. marriages are already complex enough, the long distance really strains the relationship. I rather uproot my entire life and move with him rather than weather the storms here alone & go thru all those communication problems.

and... way before marriage, the process of getting married itself is troublesome enough. helping my cousin send the bridal gifts to his fiancee's place today makes me even more determined to 'simplify' the matter. his dinner will be on 13 dec, so happy for him!